Painting the town red….
or the porch orange as the case may be.
My girls are generally pretty self-sufficient. It’s really out of necessity. Since I work from home, they are left to their own devices, probably more often than they should be. (And yes, I struggle with that guilt. a lot. Weekly I consider if they wouldn’t be better off in a structured day-care program, but then, that would really defeat the purpose of me staying home with them, wouldn’t it?) Anyway, they generally do pretty well – the house is usually trashed by the end of the day, but in the grand scheme of things, I think that’s pretty minor. Sometimes, though, things happen that remind me that Gracie and Abigail are still little girls that need more supervision than I give them.
Yesterday morning, I had a few conference calls and a meeting. A babysitter came and stayed with the girls for a few hours. My plan was to be done with work for the day by the time their sitter left. Well, that didn’t happen. I still had a few things to wrap up. So, after the girls & I had lunch on the back porch, I went back in my office to order some DVD cases for portrait sessions. The girls were in the living room watching TV. Then, I saw them go by with paint brushes and paper. I told them if they wanted to paint, they needed to go out on the front porch. I heard them opening the door and then the sounds of giggles while they created their artwork. After a few minutes, I went to check on them. Here’s what the porch looked like:
The living room floor looked almost as bad on a smaller scale. Apparently, when I saw them walking by with brushes, that was their second round of painting. And their bodies were even worse. They were both covered in orange paint. They wanted to take a bath. I told them they were too messy to come in the house. So, I did what mothers have done ever since there has been running water and filthy children:
This was after about 20 minutes of being in the sprinkler. See how orange Abigail’s hair is? At least she coordinates with her tie-dye shirt!
I wanted to be upset with them. Really, I wanted to lecture them about responsibility and creating more work for me and blah, blah, blah. But I couldn’t. Mostly, because if I had been doing what I was supposed to be doing (namely, supervising them) they wouldn’t have created such a mess. But the real reason I couldn’t be upset with them was because my heart melted when I saw this:
Their two little handprints, side by side. I love these girls of mine even when they’re painting the porch orange!


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